Thursday, February 1, 2018

The Mark of Success: 50 Common Traits of Prosperous People (part 2)

What can we learn from the most successful people in the world? In fact, just about every individual that’s become a leader or icon in their chosen vocation have the same traits in common.

Some of the most successful people in recent history include Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Jeff Bezos, Richard Branson, Mark Zuckerberg, Oprah, and Elon Musk, establishing important legacies that benefit society. But apart from being ultra-rich and powerful, they have far more in common than you might think.

In part one of this series, we covered 25 traits of the world’s most prosperous people, which was warmly received with your questions, comments, and observations. So, we’ve worked hard to isolate the next 25 common traits of the rich, successful, and powerful here:

26.      Incredible communication skills.
High achievers are almost always great communicators, interacting with others efficiently using simple, clear, and concise messages, whether in person or in writing.  This also includes the ability to actively listen – a vastly undervalued skill.

27.      Masters at conflict resolution.
Industry leaders and icons don’t shy from conflict. Known as straight-shooters, they understand that it’s a healthy and necessary function of growth. That doesn’t mean they’re necessarily aggressive or combative, but let others speak their minds, vent, and advocate for their own opinion, just like they do. By facing conflict head-on, they’re able to work through it, solving problems instead of letting them fester.

28.      They keep their egos in check.
Successful people want to learn from others so that they can constantly grow and improve.  Instead of taking things personally and quickly becoming defensive, maintain perspective and seize the opportunity.

29.      Adopting others’ viewpoints.
The mark of a great mind is that it can consider two opposing viewpoints at the same time.  Leaders and succeed-ers can do the same with people, having empathy for others by adopting their viewpoints. They are always looking to add information to their existing opinion, which remains open and flexible.

30.      They outsource. 
We may think that top producers are control freaks and do everything themselves but, in fact, they actually maximize time, energy, skills, and income by outsourcing whenever possible. They do the math and figure out when it makes sense for them to handle certain tasks, or when to assign it to someone else. 

31.      Teamwork.
Achievers work with the best financial planners, tax professionals, attorneys, and other skilled professional they can find.  They build epic teams, and outsource as much of their systems as possible, understanding their role and focusing on their own strengths.

32.      Focus on interpersonal relationships.
Genuine, personal relationships are invaluable. Prosperous people don’t rely on technology to establish and fosters relationships for them.  They call and talk, set up meetings and take the time to interact – face-to-face whenever possible. They also give you their undivided attention and interest when speaking with you.

33.      Eating right.
Hi-power thinkers, achievers, and do-ers take great care of themselves, and that starts with eating right. The brain won't run optimally without the right fuel, and a healthy routine is essential for the heights they are climbing every day.

34.      They heed their creative/energy time.
It’s fascinating when you look at the creative cycles of geniuses; not only do they understand their optimal thinking and working times, they block that time and protect it fiercely.

35.      Stay active.
Just like with food, exercise is a big piece of staying on top of success. No matter how busy they get, successful people have a very regular exercise routine as well as making their health a priority.

36.      Relaxation.
Successful people are able to breathe, stay calm, and think clearly because they regularly decompress to shed the extreme stress of their day.  Their relaxation ritual can be simple meditation, yoga, getting a massage or going for a walk. 

37.      Stamina.
This trait is usually overlooked, but successful people work long hours and expend incredible amounts of energy day after day. They understand that special achievements take special perseverance over the long haul. 

38.      Quality time.
No matter how busy they are, successful people schedule time off to spend time with their families, see friends, and enjoy their lives. 

39.      Fun!
Likewise, winners embrace the journey, not the destination and have fun as they work, play, or whatever they’re doing. That positive outlook rounds out their lives.

40.      Financial discipline.
The billionaire not-quite-next-door is extremely careful and structured with his or her money.  Even before they achieve wealth, they track all of the income and expenses, whether it’s by inputting them into a spreadsheet, saving receipts, or using tracking software. 

41.      Lack of conspicuous consumption.
Research shows that when people have earned large amounts of money, they still rarely show off their wealth.  In fact, owning things is not really the point of their existence. Instead, they save and reinvest for the long term, using their wealth to pay for experiences, rather than things.

42.      Quality of life.
The wealthy do go on adventures, occasionally treat themselves to luxury items, and will go all-out for their families, but they do these things within a larger framework of smart planning and understanding value.

43.      Big picture thinking.
People who live meaningful and comfortable lives don’t buy assets with the exception of quick riches or short-term gains. Instead, they make quality investments and hold them, with the eye toward creating something that will pay them back many times over the decades.

44.      Invest young.
Even in their 20’s, these folks understand the power of compounding.  By putting money into 401k’s, Roth IRA’s and the like early, they benefit from high returns as they get closer to retirement.

45.      Automated savings.
Whatever they earn, successful people break off a tiny piece and stash it, deducting it directly from each paycheck. This is what they mean by “pay yourself first,” as it gives them a solid foundation to invest and grow before they ever touch the rest of the funds for basics or play.

46.      Plan for rainy days.
Successful people may take risks, but they definitely are pragmatic as well, planning and preparing for the unforeseen. They keep a good amount of savings, make sure they are well insured and protected, and generally minimize liability in every aspect of their lives.

47.      They pay off bad debt.
Interest from credit cards, car loans, and other credit is a silent killer for many family budgets. In fact, successful people universally pay off credit cards, car loans, small installment loans, and don’t carry personal debt on a month-to-month basis. While they often pay off their mortgages as well, they distinguish between “good debt” that helps with investment, taxes, and credit, and “bad” debt that just depletes their bank account.

48.      They can be great because they can serve.
These people reach a certain height of success where happiness is measured by how much they can positively impact the world, not just themselves. To do so, they serve on Boards, advise, mentor, attend community meetings, vote, and even support politicians that serve in their civic interests.

49.      A core of altruism.
From Bill Gates to Warren Buffet to the Oprah, just about every notable accomplished person donates significant sums to those in need. But they create the convenient excuse that they’ll become rich first, and then start giving; they make it a part of their life from early on.

50.      They love to work, and never want to quit.  
People who lead truly exceptional lives rarely look forward to a time they can retire and stop working Instead, they are extremely passionate about what they do for a living. Their work brings them joy, so they want to keep being productive as long as they can!


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